Facebook as a Party Planning Tool

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

I tried to plan my fiance’s 30th birthday party using Facebook. I thought it would be a great way to get all our friend’s together since they were all on Facebook or so I thought…

Plus it has ways to keep tally of those who are attending or not attending events and you could create a secret group. Wonderful!

Not so much. Great plan in theory, but most of our friends chose to respond to me in the Facebook email inbox and really didn’t use the attending or not attending – and barely posted anything to the wall.

Then I realized just how many of our friends were not on Facebook. Very difficult to coordinate.

The whole secret group thing – well it has some bugs, because when you add the event aspect – even if it’s secret, I still get notifications in my profile that x number of people joined the group, or are attending the y event.. It doesn’t show up on my fiance’s profile, but it shows up in mine, which if he happens to walk by while you’re on Facebook – say goodbye to the secret part of things.

I think next year I’ll just go back to creating a secret email account and the telephone…

Take Two and Respect for Bloggers

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

Well.. Here we go.

I made such a great effort when I first started this and then life happened.

I have such fantastic respect now for regular bloggers. I honestly don’t know how they find the time to post and keep it up on a regular basis, while handling work, staying up to date on the industry and life.

So many times I’ve had posts/thoughts in my head and have had great intentions, that just don’t seem to pan out as whenever I have a few moments of time I tend to find other things to occupy my time – like wedding planning. I’m sure I could have written 100 posts on that alone to date.

I’ve likely lost any readers I had – but I promise – even if it is to myself that I will make more of an effort to post. Anyone ho knows me knows I really do have a lot to say!

Kudos to all the bloggers out there who can find this balance. I hope someone will teach me their secrets so I can get back on the horse so to speak.